Saturday Movie Night...."The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel"

              Last Night as part of our meditation group social gathering, a group of 4 families meet in one of our group members home to watch the movie - "The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel".   
              It was a very entertaining movie. Apart from capturing the lives challenges no matter where we live, whether in the West or East hemisphere or the culture or gender or age, the movie gave a very clear message of how, when one makes an effort to adapt to a given situation things unfold for the best. There is opportunity anywhere and everywhere, if only one is ready to make that little adjustment without any excuses everyone can lead a very happy contended life.  “At the end everything will be alright, if not then it has not really ended” I love it.

Sharing & Caring

I look back and it is amazing, 8 years have passed by and I thank Andrea for letting me be part of her life. I was lonely and wanted to make my life more meaningful and purposeful. Didn’t know what I really wanted to do, I thought maybe I will adopt a child, ya that sounds very strange out of the blue. Any way I started browsing the internet and came across this web site, called Children International. I was so shocked and moved by the stories and the little faces I saw on the site. I couldn’t believe you can sponsor a child just for $20 a month. I felt very small and ashamed at myself and our society and the human race, here I am spending just like that more than $20/- a month for coffee and things I don’t even remember or use. And on the other side of the world, the same $20/- can provide Food, Water & Shelter to a child. I was so ashamed and had a very restless night. I didn’t know where to begin how to resolve this. Slowly I can to the realization all that I can do is do what is in my capacity. The very next day I logged on to my laptop and started to look for a little face which will touch me, and there she was Andrea 5 yrs so cute. She lives in Guatemala with her parents and 2 siblings. The family’s entire income is $145 per month. I was amazed how a family of 5 could live in that income. I immediately signed up into the program and sponsored her. It has been 8 yrs., she is now a teenager and I am amazed when I receive her picture and a letter from her every year. Somewhere deep in my heart I thank her and God for giving me this opportunity. It is NOT a big sacrifices or a deed that I want to boost about, but I want to emphasis the fact that each and every one of us have the responsibility to share and care for our fellow beings. Today Andrea is safe and secured and has her basic needs fulfilled, that is all she expects from this world until she can take care of herself. "Small drops of water makes the ocean, if each one of us could extend our hand there won’t be any child left behind …………….."

The Law Of Giving

This frail vessel thou emptiest again and again, and fillest it ever with fresh life. This little flute of a reed thou hast carried over hills and dales, and hast breathed through it melodies eternally new ..... Thy infinite gifts come to me only on those very small hands of mine. Ages pass, and still thou pourest, and still there is room to fill. ~ Tagore (Gitanjali) This is one of my favorite chapters of the book. Nature is just is in tune with this law. "Ever relationship is one of give and take. Giving engenders receiving and receiving engenders giving. The intention behind giving and receiving is the most important thing. The intention should always be to create happiness for the giver and receiver, because happiness is life-supporting and life-sustaining and therefore generates increase. That is why the act of giving has to be joyful." "Practising the Law Of Giving is actually very simple. I you want joy, give joy to others; if you want love, learn to give love; if you want attention and appreciation, learn to give attention and appreciation; if you want material affluence, help others to become materially affluent." "Wherever I go and whoever I encounter, I will bring them a gift. The gift may be a compliment, a flower, or a prayer."

The Law Of Pure Potentiality

The Law Of Pure Potentiality - Our very essential nature is one of pure potentiality. Pure consciousness is our spiritual essence. One can dive deep into this field of pure potentiality by bringing the mind into stillness. Stillness alone is the potentiality for creativity. Stillness doesn't mean on-movement. It is the other way the co-existence of opposites - stillness and dynamism at the same time. Nature displays it in every form - the existence of the Potential energy and the Dynamic energy existing side by side.
Watch a baby - there is life - movement but there is also a peace and harmony - stillness around it. Look at the ferocious Niagara Falls - there is this roaring dynamic energy of the falls at the same time there is a peace and tranquility surrounding it. In life too even during the busiest moments one call still carry the stillness with in and the one who is in that state is fully in this field of Pure Potentiality -

The Strangest Secret

The Legendary Earl NightingaleEarl Nightingale was born in Los Angeles, California in 1921. By 1933, his father had left him, his mother and two brothers. It was the bottom of the Great Depression and millions were unemployed. Earl’s mother worked at the WPA in a sewing factory to provide for her three boys. They lived in Tent City, behind the old Mariner Apartments on the waterfront in Long Beach, California. while being poor didn’t seem to bother most of the other kids, it bothered Earl, and he wanted to know why they were so poor, while others, he observed, appeared to be so rich. Why some people were so miserable, while others, so happy. Simply, what made people turn out the way they do.
At that time, no one that Earl asked seemed to have an answer to his questions. Not his mom or any of the other adults in his neighborhood. But certain that someone, somewhere had found the answer and had written it down, Earl marched himself off to the library and began a literary search that would stretch over the next twenty years. A search that would lead Earl to study the world’s great religions, philosophy and psychology. When Earl was seventeen, eager to escape his surroundings and explore new and exciting places, he joined the Marines. He was sent to Hawaii and stationed aboard the USS Arizona. He was in his station the morning of the attack on Pearl Harbor and was one of twelve surviving Marines on board that day.
Before being mustered out of the war, Earl was returned to the states and was an instructor at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina. While there he noticed a new radio station under construction and applied for a job. He was hired by WJNC and began his radio career. After the war, Earl went to work for KTAR in Phoenix. Radio was in it’s “heyday”, and with Earl’s talent, it wasn’t long before he moved to where the heart of the action was - - Chicago. Offered jobs at both NBC and CBS, he went to work for CBS, where he quickly became a legendary icon to kids across the nation as the voice of radio hero, Sky King. When he wasn’t flying through the sky in his airplane, The Songbird, or riding off on his horse to round up the bad guys, Earl was busy writing and broadcasting his daily radio, and later, television show, from the broadcast stations in the Windy City.
Later, expanding his horizon, Earl bought a small Franklin Life Insurance agency. Each Saturday morning he would give little pep talks to the salesmen, hoping to inspire and motivate them to be the best salesmen they could be. One day Earl told his office manager that he planned to take a fishing vacation and would be away for a few weeks. Because the salesmen relied so heavily on their weekly pep talks from Earl, the manager expressed concern that sales would drop during Earl’s absence. Earl came up with the idea to record something that could be played while he was gone. Earl thought about what he might write and turned the question over and over again in his mind. Then, one night, a short time later, he woke up and knew exactly what he wanted to say. He got up, went to his typewriter and wrote a short message. The next morning he recorded the message and pressed it on a record. The message contained the most valuable information Earl had ever learned - a conclusion of truth that he had searched for and found in every book he’d ever read since he was a child of nine. Earl gave the recording to his manager and left on his fishing trip.
When he returned, he was amazed at the reaction to the message. Everyone who had heard the record wanted one for themselves. Earl pressed more records for the salesmen. The salesmen played it, not only for themselves, but for their families and friends. When the others heard it they wanted one, too. Over the next thirteen years the demand for The Strangest Secret would grow so large that Earl accepted an offer of help to fulfill orders from an acquaintance, Lloyd Conant, who had a small mail order company. Together they formed the Nightingale-Conant Corporation of Chicago and became the founding pioneers and world leaders in the personal development industry. The Strangest Secret went on to receive a Gold Record. The only spoken word recording to ever go Gold. Meanwhile, Earl Nightingale’s success as a radio and later, television personality, continued to grow, as did the demand for him as a speaker. Earl’s radio program, Our Changing World, became the most highly syndicated radio program ever, and was heard across the US, Canada, Mexico, Australia, New Zealand, Fiji, South Africa, the Bahamas, 23 countries overseas, as well as the Armed Forces Network.
In 1985 Earl was inducted into The Radio Hall of Fame. During his lifetime Earl Nightingale wrote and recorded over 7,000 radio programs, 250 audio programs as well as television programs and videos. In the mid-eighties Earl wrote his first book, Earl Nightingale’s Greatest Discovery, for which he received the Napoleon Hill Gold Medal for Literary Excellency. At the time of his death, in 1989, Earl’s multitude of recorded messages were played around the world, inspiring people from all cultures, nationalities and races, to live their lives to their fullest. Today, Earl Nightingale is remembered as the greatest philosopher of his time, and his best selling programs and books continue to sell daily and inspire new generations around the world to reach their highest potential.

Small Tasks And Duties

James Allen explains it in his simple language how important it is to focus on small tasks and things that we do in our day to day life. Most of us think to be great is to do something great. Please read through these, to change the thinking. I suggest to download the ebook Byways Of Blessedness by signing up at GoalAbility.com. It is a bible that every one should follow not just read, truly FOLLOW. The man who sets his whole mind on the doing of each task as it is presented, who puts into it energy and intelligence, shutting all else out from his mind, and striving to do that one thing, no matter how small, completely and perfectly, detaching himself from all reward in his task - that man will every day be acquiring greater command over his mind, and will, by ever-ascending degrees, become at last a man of power - a Master. Put yourself unreservedly into your present task, and so work, so act, so live that you shall leave each task a finished piece of labor - this is the true way to the acquisition of will-power, concentration of thought, and conservation of energy. Look not about for magical formulas, for strained and artificial methods. Every resource is already with you and within you. You have but to learn how wisely to apply yourself in that place which you now occupy. Until this is done those other and higher places which are waiting for you cannot be taken possession of, cannot be reached. There is no way to strength and wisdom but by acting strongly and wisely in the present moment, and each present moment reveals its own task. The great man, the wise man does small things greatly regarding nothing as "trivial" that is necessary. The weak man, the foolish man, does small things carelessly, and meanly, hankering the while after, some greater work for which, in his neglect and inability in small matters, he is ceaselessly advertising his incapacity. The man who least governs himself is always more ambitious to govern others and assume important responsibilities. "Who so neglects a thing which he suspects he ought to do because it seems too small a thing is deceiving himself; it is not too little but too great for him that he doeth it not."

Self-Image

In the book “PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS" Maxwell Maltz "states “The Self-image is the key to human personality and human behavior. Change the selfi-image and you change the personality and the behavior. This self-image sets the boundaries of individual accomplishment. It defines what you can and cannot do. Expand the self-image and you expand the area of the possible.”
I was fascinated by the way how the author explains, the inbuilt goal-striving mechanism available in each one of us and how it can be manipulated to become successful individuals. A very simple book and must be read by everyone. At times I feel these are the text’s that has to be part of the school curriculum. How much do we know about ourselves, how much we care to know about ourselves – why do we do the things that we do, why we think the way we think, why do we live the way we live – in spite of aspiring a better life. It is all with in us, would you believe if somebody said you “You create you destiny” in the beginning it was hard for me to even accept it, let alone to brood over it.
One of the things I have recognized is “learning never stops” – especially – about the self. One who invests time and resource in knowing about oneself becomes more and more successful. Never miss an opportunity to learn more about you ……here is one on Nov 4th 2009.